What makes a man still fill his friends ears with accolades for his wife? What keeps the stars in his eyes in good and bad times? The Seven Habits of Highly Praised Wives, what else?

Habit Number One...She’s Secure With Herself and Self-Confident.

A friend told me that this one should be in all caps with bold letters. Men love women who are secure with themselves. They love a woman with self-confidence. I have often heard men say that they would choose an unattractive woman with self-confidence over a pretty woman who looks down on herself. Security and self-confidence in a woman make her want to be more affectionate and cause her mate to sing her praises in the streets. 

Habit Number Two...She’s Open to Exploration and Intimate Expression.

So he wants you to wear your old cheerleading outfit to bed, huh? It obviously does something for him. Explore different avenues of sex and intimate expression with your partner. You would get tired of putting on the same shoes the same way everyday too! Keep the spices spicy.

Habit Number Three...She Manages the Home Well.

She’s a good mother to his children. She loves and nurtures them and helps to provide a safe haven for them. She never says inappropriate statements about their father in front of them. She is a responsible woman who knows how to maintain a decent household. Yes, you may have a job of your own outside of the home, but home should always be your first priority. The man may be the head of the household but the woman is the manager.

Habit Number Four...She Maintains Open Lines of Communication.

A highly praised wife doesn’t shut down the lines of communication when things don’t go her way. She doesn’t ignore her husband out of spite or badger him with innuendoes or insinuations. She understand that there may be times when he doesn’t "feel like" talking and makes it clear that she is there for him when he is ready.

Habit Number Five...She Know the Meaning of Romance, Love and Affection.

 Do you still drop little notes in his lunch? When was the last candle light dinner? Has it been that long since you walked up to him and kissed him passionately on the lips for no reason? A highly praised wife doesn’t wait for her husband to initiate romantic rendezvous. She is often the first to say "I love you" after an argument and she still loves to cuddle and caress her man. All of which, keep him dreaming of her throughout the day.

Habit Number Six...She Has Made His Heart Safe in Her Hands.

Did he tell you something that was for your ears only? If he did, he expects it to stay that way. He trust your confidence but once that is broken, it’s hard to fix. In addition to that, a highly praised wife does not put herself in a light that will cause her husband to doubt her fidelity. Her husband knows that his heart is safe with her and as his "missing rib" it is your job to protect his heart.

Habit Number Seven...She’s Beautiful on the Inside and Out.

Beauty is definitely only skin deep. Nevertheless, Highly Praised Wife, you must take care of yourself. When was the last time he saw you in his favorite outfit? Has he complimented your hair lately? Do you smell like sweet oils or Canola oil from the kitchen? Furthermore, how is your demeanor? Are you constantly picking arguments and fights or do you understand that sometimes soft words diffuse even the most heated arguments? Does he look forward to your smile at the end of the day or your scowl? Think about it!

Still a Lady...Still Wise...

Be easy...

Wizz