When I first heard that Beyonce song, it became my anthem! My girl B put it down! She said "Pull me into your arms, Say I'm the one you want, If you don't, you'll be alone and like a ghost I'll be gone!"   How powerful!  Here is the problem that I pose this evening ladies... what happens when he doesn't say your the one he wants?  Do you leave? Do you stay? Do you set ultimatums and force the issue? Do you let him give you one ring and wait another 5 years for a second one?