Somebody is going get dumped or be the dumper this holiday seaon. It never fails. Whether it was a mutual decision or an individual one, the decision to end a relationship can be devastating. You can make it and you will. This is not the time to fall apart. You are still responsible for you and your actions. Here are a few things to get you started on your emotional rehabilitation...

First things first...

Ok...here's what I think needs to be broken down so it can once and forever be broken.  And I'm gonna try to dumb it down as much as I can for the perpetually confused.

Entertainers (no matter what branch) have their public selves and private selves.  What you see on stage is not "the person".  What you see in the videos is not their lives...stay with me, I know some of you are smart enough to know this but we got a few stragglers.  If Jay Z were Jay Z all the time and not Sean Carter...he'd lose his mind.  If Mos Def were Mos Def ALL the time and not the person behind his government name, he'd lose his mind.  If Beyonce, 50 Cent, Tina Turner, Bird Man or whomever else you want to name walked around as the performer...the public self...all the time just to make illiterate people comfortable and happy...they'd probably lose there minds too.